Lately, I have been asked by a few people, my doctor included, how I am doing managing four kids (three under 3). I am not exactly sure why suddenly this appears to be a popular question. Is it out of concern? Are they curious to look into the mind of a crazy person now that I am standing right in front of them? Is it the disheveled hair? The skipped button on my blouse? The bags under my eyes? Both or all of the above? I will tell you how I am managing, I have become much better about asking for help and accepting it. I still struggle with the need to reciprocate the favor but now realize that sometimes, when your hands are too full, people just want to help make the load lighter. I have learned that gratefulness creates abundance and I am crazy rich in friends and family. They are everything I am grateful for and I hope they know how much I love them. So thank you for asking how I manage. It isn't pretty but sometimes it can be the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.